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Mental Models & Self-Work
Frameworks that survive contact with reality. And the limits they don't advertise.
There's a version of "mental models" that's mostly LinkedIn theatre. Invoking second-order thinking the way other people invoke their CrossFit times. This shelf is the other version. The frameworks are real. The limits are stated. The application is to actual work and life, not to sounding smart in a meeting.
Some of the posts are about classic models like opportunity cost, sunk-cost reasoning, base rates, and second-order effects. Applied to freelance and solo-work decisions where they earn their rent. Some are about the smaller, quieter models that don't have viral names but that I keep going back to. Some are about self-work. Habits, attention, motivation. The honest reading there is that there's no clean framework. Just a few patterns that hold up if you respect them.
If a model in a post makes you nod and want to share it but doesn't change anything about your Tuesday, the post failed. The bar isn't insight. The bar is something you can use.
161 posts in this hub ·Personal Development · Timeless Lessons
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Skill Stacking for a Career That Lasts
You don't have to be the best in the world. Skill stacking two or three good skills makes you rare in a way that's easier to reach and harder to copy.
The Emergency Fund for Freelancers Is Bigger
Why the freelancer emergency fund needs to be bigger than the salaried 3-month rule, and how it buys you the power to say no.
Barnum's 1880 Money Rules Still Work (Mostly)
P.T. Barnum wrote a money advice book in 1880. Some of the rules are timeless. Some have rotted. A few are quietly more dangerous than they look. Here's the honest audit.
Epicurus on the Anxiety-Free Workday
Emily Austin's reading of Epicurus reframes pleasure as the actual goal of self-employment. Here are the practices that move closest to it, curated short.
Common Sense Is Usually Right (Even at Work)
Philosopher Michael Huemer argues that when smart arguments lead you to absurd conclusions, the arguments are wrong, not the common sense. That's a useful idea to bring to a pricing meeting.
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